SALAM

Entah kenapa, saban hari perihal aku diperhatikan oleh segelintir. Setiap tingkah laku akan dipersoal dan ditegur. Mungkin kerana mereka sayang, atau mungkin kerana mereka risau, tapi semua perkara pasti akan dikritis.

Dan entah mengapa, teguran yang dilemparkan dapat ku rasakan teramat sinis. Dan entah mengapa, teguran yang diberi pasti akan berasa dengan kekecewaan di lubuk hati. Sebagai insan yang tak lekang dengan kesabaran, setiap sinisan diterima, aku hanya mampu beristighfar di dalam hati untuk mengelak api amarah dari terus menyala. Dan setiap istighfar itu, pasti dapat menyejukkan hati ini untuk terus bersama.

Mungkin aku seorang yang pelembut di dalam kehidupan ini, dan mungkin aku seorang yang penyabar, tapi jauh di lubuk hati perasaan geram pasti akan ternukil.

Setiap insan yang menegur, telah ku kenali lebih dari sedekad lamanya. Dan setiap insan yang ku katakan ini, pasti mengasihi aku sebagai seorang sahabat.

Biarkan sahaja perihal mereka. Masing masing sudah dewasa dan matang dalam persahabatan. Barangkali jikalau perkara ini keterlaluan, mereka akan mengetahui apa yang tersirat.

Biarkan..biarkan mereka terjun dengan perihal perihal mereka.

Ada Berani

Ada berani team Takraw Total?
http://kosmo.com.my/kosmo/content.asp?y=2009&dt=0804&pub=Kosmo&sec=Sukan&pg=su_09.htm

Wisdom of the Day

"It's like the classic story of the young boy who travelled far from from his home to study under a great teacher. When he met the wise old man, his first question was,

'How long will it take me before I am as wise as you?'

"The response came swiftly, 'Five years.'

" ' This is a very long time,' the boy replied. 'How about if I work twice as hard?'

" ' Then it'll take ten,' said the master.

" 'Ten! That's far too long. How about if I studied all day and well into the night, every night?'

" ' Fifteen years,' said the sage.

" ' I don't understand,' replied the boy. 'Every time I promise to devote my energy to my goal, you tell me it will take longer. Why?'

" ' The answer is simple. With one eye fixed on the destination, there is only one left to guide you along the journey.' "

- The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari page 63 -

Need Help v1.1

Uh oh.. i'm so stress up with this dinner function! Date has been decided.. 14th Aug 08.

The venue has yet to be decided..

I want to held it in Armada, where they serve BBQ Buffet Dinner.
Unfortunately, some say the food is not worth the price.
I've never eaten the BBQ dinner, so I have little to say on that.

A friend suggested Mum's Place in Damansara Perdana.
I'm a little skeptical bout this place, as I have never been nor eaten there..
I'm just afraid the ambiance will be a normal coffee shop, which will be a turn off.

Another place that crossed my mind is Bora Asmara.
No buffet, just makan hidang with great ambiance..
Hmm.. pocho pocho?

What say u?

Mengantuk

Gambar ketika zaman belajar di payung, sebelum wujudnya tempat lepak W

Tiap tiap pagi bila nak pergi ke kerja, mata ini kadang kadang akan terasa mengantuk. Ini disebabkan oleh aktiviti dan tektik aku pada malam sebelumnya. Aku pun tak pasti kenapa aku keluar malam malam sebelum itu, yang pastinya keesokan pagi pasti akan terasa berat di mata.

Kebiasaannya, tiap tiap malam aku ada tektik. Sekarang ni pun, kehidupan malam telah terjadual;

Isnin : Aktiviti berbasikal
Selasa : Futsal UEFA
Rabu : Aktviti melepak
Khamis : Hari mencalat (dating)
Jumaat : Futsal

Aku rasa aku nak kurangkan dah aktiviti malam. Kalau tak kurangkan juga, mungkin satu hari nanti aku akan datang ke kerja seperti gambar yang tertera.

Rasa rasanya, yang mana satu aku patut eliminate?

Need Help.

I need to organize my Boss's farewell party.

He's Chinese with lots of Malay subordinates..

I suggested Dim Sum, but as usual.. my Malay colleagues objected to it..

Any suggestions?

Best Adult Jokes Contest 2009

The best adult jokes contest 2009 through cellphone texts/smses in U.S.A.

Grand Prize USD50,000.00 1) Newly wed girl told mom her husband is still a virgin. Mom asked "How do you know dear?" Girl replied "Last night, when we made love, his cock was still in plastic cover."

First Prize USD25,000.00
(2) Immigrant Worker: "Sir, me no come to work, me sick." Boss: " When I am sick, I have sex with my wife - try it." 2 hours later >>Immigrant Worker: "Boss! It worked! Me ok now. You got nice house."

10 Consolation Prize USD10,000.00 each
(3) After sex, a newly wed wife kept fondling her husband's cock. Husband asked: "Why? Want to have sex again?" Wife replied: "No dear, I just admiring your cock. I used to have one before."

(4) Women's lives are hard. Morning, wash clothes. Noon, hang clothes. Evening, keep clothes. Nite, iron clothes. Midnight, take off clothes. After midnight, find clothes.

(6) Priest lost his chicken and asked during mass: "Anyone got a cock?" All men rose. "I meant anyone seen a cock?" All women rose. "I mean anyone seen my cock?" All nuns rose.

(7) A Sad story >> A woman's husband died and she had him cremated. She then blew his ashes into the ocean and said, " Sweetheart, this is my last blowjob for you."

(8) Girl: "Mom what is a penis?" Mom: "When you become a good girl, you will get one." Girl: "But mom, what if I am not a good girl?" Mom: "Then you will get many, dear!"

(9) A lawyer who was confused in his mathematics asked his secretary: "If I give you USD3 million less 17.5%, how much would you take off?" Secretary: "Everything sir! Dress, Bra, Panties, Everything."

(10) Schoolgirl: "I do not want to take the sex Education class." Teacher: "Why?" Schoolgirl: "Someone told me that the final exam will be Oral."

(11) Two sperms talking on mobile phone. Ist: "I'm somewhere between the fallopian tube and uterus. Are you close-by?"2nd: "No boy, I am taking a different route. I am just crossing the tonsils."

(12) Scientists have discovered that the lightest thing in the world is a penis. This is because it can be lifted up even by just a simple thought.

Unpublished article

This is an untold story of a murder happened in a German court. It is puzzling that our media did not aired it on our news.

Are we coming to an era where Muslims are all hated? Genocides are taking places everywhere in our world, from Palestin to China.. We need to prepare for the worst.

The end of time is definitely coming. Let us all pray for our safe keeping..

Googled Ahmad Fairuz Effendee

I googled up my full name, and here are some of the hit list mentioned;

1. I appeared on ape yang ko merepek ni sapik
2. I signed a petition on believing in Allah
3. I was mentioned in Stick it
4. My fotopages was highlighted under the browsing segment.

Maybe my name had to compete with the Tun Ahmad Fairuz, hence my sweet lil' name could not get quite a hit.

Cara Cara Mengikat Tali Kasut

Memandangkan ramai di antara kita yang menggilai kasut, maka ini aku kongsikan cara cara mengikat tali kasut.

Ini juga boleh membuatkan kita terasa cool seperti orang muda..
















Diharap agar semua dapat mencuba pelbagai fesyen yang terhidang di sini.

Tiket Man Utd vs Malaysia

They are here... It's gonna be memorable watching Owen running in the Devils kit for the first time. I hope the new number 7 will eclipse the former, cause the former is a show pony.. I like Owen because of his work rate. That's why Tevez's departure will surely be missed.

I hope TFC's new number 7 (self proclaimed) will also be as good as Owen.

Qunut

Janganlah kita tunjuk pandai kalau kita tidak mengetahui, dan berhati hatilah bila kita mempelajari sesuatu dari seseorang.. Pastikan pengajar itu benar benar arif tentang perkara yang di ajari.

Moving On

I've made up my mind weeks ago..
and now I've made it official..

It's gonna be the last 3 months..
I have mix feeling for it..

But life must go on..
I can't wait for the next chapter of my life..

Billi Lim will guide me all through the way..
I believe in his words..

Allah Selamatkan Kamu

Hari ini harijadiku. Maka hari ini adalah hari bermakna. Maka, hari ini mungkin hari yang biasa sahaja untuk kamu, tapi hari ini hari jadiku...

So, Selamat harijadi Ahmad Fairuz.. :)

For the One Who's Having the Time of His Life

FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER by Dov Heller, M.A.

When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right!

If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: 'We're in love'; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a profound truth here.

Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: 'You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone'; You need a lot more!!!

Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about finding and keeping a life partner.

QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose?

Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together?

You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.

Two things can happen in a marriage: (1) You can grow together, or (2)you can grow apart. 50% of the people out there are growing apart.

To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!

Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.

QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?

This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.

Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust i.e. trust that I won't get 'punished'; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings.

A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings.. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.

QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch?

A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as 'someone who is always striving to be good and do the right ';. So ask about your significant other: What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement.

There are essentially two types of people in the world: (1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle.

QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people?

The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure.

Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and selfâ€' absorbed?

To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation?

If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.

QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married?

Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to 'improve'; them after they're married. As a colleague of mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them.

In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous.

The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues.

Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because you didn't do your homework.

Another perspective...

There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, notâ€'going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you.

Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean?

Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?

Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?

When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?

Which ones don't appreciate you?

Which ones make you feel good, praises you, boosts you with loving and caring words or annotations.

The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.

An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.

Do you bring out the best in each other?

Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?

What do you bring to the relationship?

Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?

You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.

If you develop self esteem, spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:

1. TRUST

2. COMMUNICATION

3. INTIMACY

4. A SENSE OF HUMOR

5. SHARING TASKS

6. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes,etc.)

7. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS

8. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE

9. GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT

10. CONCERN AND CARE FOR YOUR LOVER IN YOUR OWN WAYS.

If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty; and pain will replace.

*taken from an email i received recently.

Tips On Eating and Diet

1. The Japanese eat very little fat
and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

2. The Mexicans eat a lot of fat
and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

3. The Chinese drink very little red wine
and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

4. The Italians drink a lot of red wine
and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

5. The Germans drink a lot of beers and eat lots of sausages and fats and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

CONCLUSION

Eat and drink what you like.
Speaking English is apparently what kills you.

Tersebutlah Kisah...

Sudah lama aku meninggalkan warkah elektronik aku ini usang dari catitan catitan aku. Kehidupan di kala ini agak pantas. Siang berganti malam berlalu dengan begitu pantas. Aku adakala sibuk mengejar tanggungjawab aku di pejabat, dan kadang kadang masa yang terluang aku mengqada'kan tidur aku yang tidak pernah cukup.

Di kala ini, banyak benda yang telah berlaku, namun di antara semua itu, ada sesuatu yang aku ingin utuskan. Perkara ini sudah lama berlaku, adakala timbul, adakala ianya tenggelam. Aku ingin memperihalkan tentang kepentingan harmoni di dalam sesebuah institusi.

Sudah tersedia maklum bahawa peel manusia memang berbeza di antara satu sama lain. Ada yang unik, ada yang membosankan, ada juga yang menjengkelkan. Sedar tidak sedar, ada di antara perangai kita yang tidak begitu disenangi oleh rakan rakan sendiri. Kadang kadang aku juga berkelakuan sombong, adakala anda mungkin terlalu sinis, dan ada juga yang tidak sedar bahawa diri anda adalah sebenarnya baran.

Di sini ingin aku nyatakan bahawa sikap toleransi sudah lama wujud di antara kita. Tidak mungkin kita mampu bertahan berkawan sebegini lama sekiranya kita tidak mampu untuk bertoleransi sesama manusia. Namun, ingin aku nyatakan di sini bahawa ada segelintir di antara kita yang sangat suka memperendahkan toleransi yang diberi. Tidak kah anda dapat merasakan, yang kadang kadang tidak ada sesiapa yang menegur anda? Atau tidak ada yang menjemput anda untuk minum petang? Atau sedar tak sedar anda hanya keseorangan di malam hari, di kala rakan rakan lain keluar untuk secawan teh?

Cuba anda renung kembali perangai anda. Kalau kita perhatikan, jurang perpecahan antara kita semakin hari semakin besar. Ini kerana ada di antara kita yang tidak mampu untuk menahan cacian cacian yang anda lemparkan. Ada juga yang sudah tidak kuasa melayan kata kata sinis dan pedas yang keluar dari bibir anda. Jangan biarkan persahabatan di antara kita terkubur hanya kerana anda tidak mampu bertoleransi sesama sendiri. Jangan ikut kehendak anda sahaja tanpa memikirkan tentang kepayahan orang lain. Hari ini mungkin hari anda, tapi esok lusa kita tidak tahu milik siapa.

Oleh yang demikian, kepada siapa yang sinis, kurang kurangkanlah kata manismu itu. Sesiapa yang terasa besar kepala, besarkanlah lagi hati anda untuk menerima orang lain seadanya. Sesiapa yang baran, sejukkanlah hati mu itu dengan benda benda yang lebih berfaedah. Sesiapa yang terasa dirinya lebih hebat, ingatlah bahawa kehebatan mu itu juga disebabkan sokongan padu rakan rakan yang lain. Sesiapa yang terasa, buanglah yang keroh. Sesiapa yang merasa, curahkanlah semula air yang jernih untuk orang lain.

Ini semua catitan aku di dalam warkah. Apa yang tertulis, hanyalah sekadar renungan untuk semua. Aku tak mahu ada nanti buku ruas terhinggap di muka. Ini nasihat aku untuk anda. Tak mahu terima, ikutlah akal mu itu. Kerana mengikut akal mu itulah, maka terwujudlah keratan ini.

* Catatan ditulis oleh kerana aku lihat, aku dengar dan aku rasakan ada di antara kita yang ditindas oleh peel orang lain.

Nur Kasih 2.0

Aku masih belum ke tahap obses lagi tengok cerita ni, tapi aku memang tertarik dengan struktur jalan ceritanya..

Dan aku masih suka nak semua orang perhatikan raut wajah Amina ni.. Perhatikan betul2..

Ni pandangan sisi Cik Amina kita. Waktu ni tengah sesi nak kahwin...


Ni pulak gambar dia dari depan.. makin jelas muka dia ni..

Ni gambar dia close up sikit.. heheh, kenal tak?

ACAI BERRY

Recently, some of my friends are infected with the Acai Berry bug online. I am the person to be blamed causing it, as it is spread to them via my MSN account.

The problem is, I have no idea what is the product. I am worried as how did it manage to penetrate to my account and spread this "wonderful" product to my friends. I am thinking to resort the problem by terminating the account. Would it work, and would it be wise?

For all my friends who are infected by this bug,

maafkanlah saya.. aku tak makan pun product tu.. and aku tak boleh nak bagi testimoni camner aku berjaya turunkan 30 pound seperti menatang tu khabarkan...

Never Give Up!

This is a story of a man who sees the glass as half full. His motivation and will power is an example for all of us who thinks that their obstacle is unbearable.

For every 100 falls, you must always stand up for the 101th time.

"Sesungguhnya bersama kesusahan itu ada kemudahannya"

-Rabiatul Adawiyah-